Please check my FAQ (mobile version linked on my blog)! Asexual Australian. SHe/Her or He/Him but nothing in between please! I'm a nerd who likes nerd things.
Started to watch something tonight that immediately triggered me real bad regarding sexual trauma. Ron was about to go for a shower so he loaded up Power Wash Simulator (thanks to Markiplier he torrented it) and basically gave me no choice but to play it. and tbh I was good again in like 2 minutes. My man knows me 💜
Went on an unexpected trip down lotr lb memory lane tonight. There’s certainly no denying that had a great impact on my life, as silly as it may seem lol
Went on an unexpected trip down lotr lb memory lane tonight. There’s certainly no denying that had a great impact on my life, as silly as it may seem lol
Watched ‘How to Become a Tyrant’ tonight. It ends with them saying “who can become a tyrant? Anyone.” Was honestly just waiting for a 3 second clip of Trump to finish it off. They’re cowards for not doing it.
Ron sometimes spends nights gaming with his boys which works for my occasional need for breaks from human interaction - except that I never need that from him and often our time together is spent just watching something together (he’s really enjoying Markiplier and Criminal Minds, I have truly met my perfect match). But anyway sometimes I crave his attention and have nothing to throw at him or poke him with (like one of those toy retractable arms). Please donate.
I threw random things at him he threw half back and ignored everything else I am alone
Y'all are so beautiful and loving omg but no I promise this is not an actual problem between us I’m making fun. He has occasional nights with the guys but every night he comes to bed with me and almost always still leaves an hour or two for us to chill.
Plus every other way he’s so sweet and loving and there for me and I could go on but it would take forever.
So really, everything’s fine, sometimes I just want to annoy him, preferably with some kind of extended grabby hand
Ron sometimes spends nights gaming with his boys which works for my occasional need for breaks from human interaction - except that I never need that from him and often our time together is spent just watching something together (he’s really enjoying Markiplier and Criminal Minds, I have truly met my perfect match). But anyway sometimes I crave his attention and have nothing to throw at him or poke him with (like one of those toy retractable arms). Please donate.
I threw random things at him he threw half back and ignored everything else I am alone
Y'all are so beautiful and loving omg but no I promise this is not an actual problem between us I’m making fun. He has occasional nights with the guys but every night he comes to bed with me and almost always still leaves an hour or two for us to chill.
Plus every other way he’s so sweet and loving and there for me and I could go on but it would take forever.
So really, everything’s fine, sometimes I just want to annoy him, preferably with some kind of extended grabby hand
I recently came out to my mother's side of the family who are majority conservative christians and it went much better than I expected. Like, they were weirdly supportive. I only got one comment insinuating that I might possibly be going to hell but it came from my aunt and she's dying soon anyway so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. Anyway, I'm telling them how shocked I am and that I honestly thought that they'd have more of a problem with it when my grandma is like "Well you know we've been through this before with your uncle Nicky" and I'm like "what" and so it turns out that my uncle Nick was born a Natalie, came out as a boy at 19, and my great grandma proceeded to pay for his top surgery and hormone therapy. In 1974. And I just had to process for a bit because my entire life no one has referred to him as anything other than he/him and his chosen name. I ask why no one ever thought to mention this and they're just like "tbh we forgot. It's been so long that he's been a man" This man is married. He has a wife and three kids. I ask my relatives how they went about having kids, whether through adoption or sperm donor or what and none of them know. Apparently he just told everyone that they were gonna be parents and then one day showed up at my grandma's house with a baby. No questions were asked. Just. He and his wife had a baby now and that was that. Three times. Weeks later when I finally talk to my aunt Sarah (Nick's wife) all she tells me is that neither of them have ever been pregnant and, I quote, "sometimes you just come into children". She phrased it like people use the phrase "come into money". Like children are something that just happens to you. I ask my relatives if any of them had a problem with Nick being trans at the time, saying I'd understand if they had negative feelings about it, as it was the 1970s after all. They were like "nope" and i was just like "you didn't think anything of it?" And my grandfather was like "these things happen" while the other adults nodded sagely. So I guess the moral here is that if my conservative christian relatives could accept my uncle as trans in the 1970s then there really isn't any excuse for anyone. And also my family needs to ask more questions because I'm fairly sure my aunt and uncle stole their kids.
I’m laughing my ass off at that last sentence- But I’m so glad your coming out went well! That’s one heck of a way to find out you have LGBT relatives.
